Thursday, June 25, 2015
For Pride Month: Wise Words from Harvey Milk
― Harvey Milk
I think what Harvey Milk is saying is that by being honest about who we are, we move forward in eradicating the hate and fear that keeps us in the closet ("once they realize we are indeed their children").
I think that's the goal: if people see that being gay is just another variation on the human theme and not something to be hated, ridiculed, reviled, feared, or ashamed of, then we can wipe out the fear that keeps us hiding in the shadows in shame and in fear of what might happen if we are our true selves. It's lofty, I know, but by maintaining the status quo and hiding, we'll never move forward, never gain acceptance or equality.
And I don't think the quote encourages people to come out when they're not ready. It's just saying it's the right thing to do eventually for the betterment of everyone, especially the person in the closet.
Real Men. True Love. Rick R. Reed draws inspiration from the lives of gay men to craft stories that quicken the heartbeat, engage emotions, and keep the pages turning. Although he dabbles in horror, dark suspense, and comedy, his attention always returns to the power of love. He’s the award-winning and bestselling author of more than fifty works of published fiction and is forever at work on yet another book. Lambda Literary has called him: “A writer that doesn’t disappoint…” You can find him at www.rickrreed.com or www.rickrreedreality.blogspot.com. Rick lives in Palm Springs, CA with his beloved husband and their fierce Chihuahua/Shiba Inu mix.